One morning I sat in a sunny sheltered spot overlooking the river and did nothing except enjoy the sun and soak up the warmth. The sky was blue, blue, cloudless blue. The water of the river was blue, too. Where the river met the ocean, the whitecaps shone. I saw unexpected, unfamiliar flowers on large spikey succulents. Beige sand beaches stretched left and right on both sides of the river. With my eyes closed and a small contented smile on my lips, I saw the red of the inside of my eyelids. I could hear the distant roar of he ocean waves and the gentle lapping of the river water against the shore. Birds chirped, seagulls squawked and there was sweet birdsong near and far. I felt the warmth of the sun on my face. It was like a gentle massage of the molecules of my skin. I felt a few curls of hair moving in the breeze. This church at the end of my lane rings the daytime hours. I have a slow pace here and an empty dance card. It is a blessing and a challenge.![]()
This monument honours three men from Vila Nova de Milfontes who flew from Lisbon to Macau in 1924.
Random observations:
- Almost no men dress like a 12 year old (baseball cap, tshirt, jeans, sneakers)
- It is a coffee society. There are many cafes. In general, women gather, chat, and drink cappuccino. Men stand at the counter and drink an espresso in 3 sips and leave.
- Smoking is common at the outside cafe tables and cigarette vending machines are available inside the cafe. A pack of ciggies costs E4.70 ($7).
-I haven't seen an obese person.
-People greet each other (and me!) as they pass .
- I haven't heard the f-word in 3 weeks.
I have too much time here and don't know how to fill it. I am at the beginning of week 3 out of 5. I am starting to realize and understand that I am here to live, not do. Doing a load of laundry the other day was comforting and I really enjoyed sweeping the floor of my apartment. Life seemed more normal. I thought of my daughter and my young co-workers who have very busy, demanding lives, as I did when my children were young. I would have loved to have all this endless time. As we get past parenting and working, we have more time but less health. Would I trade one for another? No. To every time there is a season. Everything is perfect the way it is. I have time to feel the sun on my eyelids and the life experience to appreciate it.